The week I left in March 2017, I landed at a friend’s house. She invited me to a women’s retreat that weekend at the beach.
As per usual, I couldn’t sit through the songs or talk. I finally stopped trying to control the tears and sat by the bathroom, listening.
That night, I listened to a music playlist to drown out my thoughts. Waking at 4 a.m., Something Wild by Lindsey Stirling was playing. Feeling God’s presence, He dedicated that song to me. After the song was over He showed me a vision.
I was tiny in the eye of a tornado I could not see the top of. There was no wind or fear that I felt, I was completely protected. God showed me that was His anger towards my abuse. He was going to keep me safe. Suddenly, it settled into my heart, I don’t have to be angry about the abuse, He was plenty angry for me. I didn’t have to feel hurt by Him, He didn’t hurt me. People did. I didn’t even have to feel betrayed by my faith because it was partly my own misunderstanding that led me to stay with an abusive husband.
Saturday morning, there was such a difference in my countenance that everyone around me noticed. I could finally sit through songs, even sing them again and sit through talks without tears streaming down my face.
This was a huge moment for me. It was a step forward in healing. It was a step forward in a true understanding of who God is and how much He loves me.
I have traveled far from this point, with an awareness that I have a long way to go still. But the important thing is… My eyes are on Jesus and He leads me forward.
Me and one of my sweet friends, Laura, March 2017 at the ladies retreat.